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Topic: HAVE A CLOSER LOVER ONLINE THAN REAL LIFE
Do you think its healthy that your lover is a stranger online and not the one you meet each day.
Would you find it easier to share your fears and problems with him/her than someone you see all the time?
May 16, 2008
5:59 AM
Either online or offline,being lover is not healthy in itself(in nice way).

to the question about online lover,there must have been enough sharing till one say another a *lover*.
in a way,its quite risky to be online lover bcs a lot fraud ¨things goes on n thats easy hiding behind the computer.
though, personally,i dont much categorised as online or offline.important is genuinity.
if everything is genuine,its healthy even being online lovers.if there isnot genuinity then even real life love turns unhealthy.
but i think people wont stay long time as a online lover.once they r in love,sooner or later they become offline lover..dont they?
May 16, 2008
6:33 AM
I'm not into online romances in a direct way. Virtual romances seem to me to be just another example of games people play. Strong human relationships, however, are another matter. I have virtual brothers, sisters and daughters on line and have REAL feelings for them. We are in contact often and share some of our lives together.
Posted by Scott  
May 17, 2008
12:46 AM
I bealive that so called stranger can have a very sincere relation with you than a person you meet each day.love is not build with mind but with heart.wat you feel is more important.
May 17, 2008
2:15 AM
I think sometimes is easier writte about your problems and your fellings by internet, because you dont see reactions you dont see faces and when you are in front of a person sometimes is difficult to express your feelings then it makes, these kind of relatiionship, seems better than a relation with someone who you see everyday but I think anything can replace a hug or a kiss I mean the human contact,and maybe you can have a sincere relation but you'll never be certain about a person who you dont see and you don't really know.
May 17, 2008
10:44 PM
hmm unless u no for a fact that u will meet da other person i really wouldnt bother, but i do believe in a great friendship in here when u can share many of your thoughts n laughs together as firends..
Posted by debbie 
May 18, 2008
2:05 AM
It would be more difficult because of the gap between the two of you.
May 18, 2008
1:11 PM
They say distance never seperates hearts that care.never heard of people meeting on the net and becoming lifetime partners.Am so into someone on this net and am hopping 2 win her heart.how is that?
May 19, 2008
12:17 AM
Tania, I completelly disagree with u this time.

Not being able to see the other person, and just needing to writte about ur problems or about anything without seing his/her face and reactions is not easier, but harder.

Also, one of the things u seek the most for is the human touch as u say, but if ur relationship is going somewhere, then u know u're gonna get it anyways.
May 19, 2008
4:50 AM
what a question... for me it depends like otehrs said its not about the sharing its about trust... its not about distance but a quality time you spend each other... its not the emotion but its how you build your relationship...

But sad to say i preffered to have relationship to someone that i know maybe online for me is sometrhing to use to make friends with somebody...
May 19, 2008
6:34 PM

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