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HOW MANY OF U WILL FORGIVE A GUY IF HE CHEATS ON U AND WHY?
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Jul 4, 2008
7:49 AM
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I AM A STRAIT PERSON AND IF SOME CHEAT ME .... I NEVER FORGIVE HIM ANYWAYS. BECAUSE I NEVER CHEAT ANYBODY.
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Jul 4, 2008
7:52 AM
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It depends, what's cheating? Are we married, engaged or living together?
My friend, (I'll call her Sue), was engaged to be married but was waiting for marriage to have sex. Her fiance slept with his former girl-toy whom he gilted for Sue. Sue married him because she knew he had sex because he could not wait and the girl meant nothing to him. For me, well I was glad he was Sue's and not mine, not because he cheated on Sue but because he used a woman he did not love. He hurt that ex-girl friend whom he was obviously using for sex. That didn't say much for his character.
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Jul 4, 2008
8:00 AM
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Would I forgive a man, again it depends on the situation. Am I married? Do we have kids? Will my life be better with him or without him?
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Jul 4, 2008
8:03 AM
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not me if u slip u drop
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Jul 4, 2008
6:11 PM
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i have lol was hard and b4 that i never thought i could/would. I was in the situation where he cheated on me we took some time apart coz i couldnt handle seeing him n thinking about it n he explained to me the reasons n so forth fair enough not good enough but i realised it hurt more without him n we gt bk together n i did forgive him. I guess it depends on alot of situational factors i never thought id let myself be with some1 who does that but i did n he neevr cheated after.
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Jul 4, 2008
8:00 PM
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Well, I dont know what I would ither. I kinda agree with the saying ( always give somebody else another chance ) because I know some people got cheaten on, but they fix dat and went over it together, and the relationship got even stronger. I dont know if i could thou live with that thought in my head. I coudnt say. But it would hurt alot thou. But i will seek advide from mona and she would help me out looooooooooooooooool. Innit ??? lol.
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Jul 5, 2008
4:58 PM
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Or, i would get my shootgun and shoot that fool down lmaoooooooooooooooooo. I am jk :) I can do much better dan that looooooooool.
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Jul 5, 2008
5:13 PM
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Um, I would be very pissed off lol. I am the kind of person that is too proud to forgive something like that...but in a general overview of things, we all deserve a second chance, and it's understandable for there to be times when we slip.
If it happened once, a small little thing like kissing or maybe even the "big act" it would be more tolerable than, perhaps, if she went out with the guy behind my back for a month or something. Then it wouldn't be an accident but a whole lie to see me as a fool. And I hate being taken as the fool, I can be very mean >.> not to mention bloody.
But let's hope that doesn't happen, right? =)
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Jul 5, 2008
6:08 PM
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True I agree on dat. If she did on purpose and see him behind my back, hell no I would take that idiot back. But there is never a GOOD motice to cheat on someone so. Any reason for me dosent make any difference, as cheating is always cheating. But a kiss is not as bad as actually sleeping with someone, so a kiss wont bother me as much and I would forgive her for dat. But, not without my revenge thou and kiss soneone else loool. I believe in fairness lmao. Dont you think so Andres ???
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Jul 5, 2008
6:53 PM
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